I am running OpenLP Portable on my Windows 10 desktop at home and have recently updated it from vw2.4.6 to v3.1.3. (I'm normally playing in the band at church, so I only run OpenLP in a "tech help" capacity)
Like the OP I find that when first launched the transparent logo changes to a white screen with logo. Eventually, I found that if I hit ESC twice, the white screen disappeared and I could access all windows on my desktop.
Before that I tried to move away from the white screen by using ALT-TAB, but while I could move from app to app as soon as I released the keys the white screen would reappear, meaning I was effectively locked out of my computer. I couldn't even run Task Manager to try and kill the program, so rebooted the machine.
After reading this topic I also tried clicking on the white screen. While it blinks on the first click, after that it remains.
I can't find the setting for single screens that you mention. Can you point me in the right direction, please, otherwise I guess I need to report this as a bug.
(I am slowly getting used to Flarum, but I can't find a "bug report" tag)